We can’t love he then she?
Then, perhaps, both in one?
Or the nonbinary?
Where is this rule written?
In some fool’s walled-off brain?
In some researcher’s skewed case study?
In an obsolete text intent on control?
Were we pans even consulted?
The answer doesn’t matter
Love, as they say, is love
Opinions, studies, and texts have no bearing
The heart must decide for itself