This is the first post, essay one if you will, in my blog series titled “Science Fiction Conundrums,” where I, a queer Science Fiction author, will examine issues that are perhaps unique to my preferred genre… though I am quite certain some of these explorations will be applicable to other genres, queer in context/ sub-context or not.
First off, let’s discuss the difference between sex and gender. Sex refers to the biological and genetic factors we are born with/ the hand we are dealt at birth. It’s chromosomes, hormones, and internal/ external organs or the lack thereof. Gender is much more complicated. According to WHO (the World Health Organization) gender, “refers to the socially constructed roles, behaviours, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for men and women.” But, as we all know, (or should know) there are many more genders than male/female. Gender deals with psychology and sociology. It’s societal norms and expectations and all the variants therein.
Note to readers: If you plan on disproving my discussion of gender and sex in the comments by mansplaining or lobbing your religion at me, please hit the back button and go away before you even begin. I approve all comments before they post, so your rant will probably be trashed. Besides, you and I both have better things to do.
First, a bit about my own unique perspective on sex and gender: I’m a bi/pan queer woman, which means sex and/or gender are not what attract me to another human. Intelligence, empathy, and kindness, however… I am also a mother of three children and married to a woman, but, no, that does not make me a lesbian. I was also married to a man for over a decade. Identities like mine often cause a backlash even within the queer author community, but I’m not certain if it’s a patriarchy issue (since most of the Queer Science Fiction sites and author groups I frequent are dominated by MM authors and male readers) or a misunderstanding concerning gender and sex and their interweaving.
It’s a subject to explore in a later post in this series.
Today, I want to take a closer look at Sci-Fi worlds where there is only one biological sex present, concentrating on the problem which arises when the author describes these single-sex species in male/female (binary) terms.
He/ she. Her/him. His/ hers. Most Earth species have two biological sexes, (I’m overlooking single cell organism and other, often described as gender-bending, species here) but, as we know (or should know) nothing is really so simple or as black-and-white. (red-and-green, purple-and-pink…pick your color combination) In Humans, it’s relatively simple. Two things must come together, an egg and a sperm to create a child. (okay, yes, I know that technology is changing this) However, and this is a big however, if you have a world containing only one biological sex then there is absolutely no logical reason to use binary terms such as male or female (or their pronoun versions) to define your characters. I don’t care if other species in their world require binary/ two biological sexes for reproduction, if your character’s species does not, and you’re writing from their viewpoint, it’s absolute BS to use binary world, male/female terms, and here’s why…
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Biological sex will not be a defining concept within the species.
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Biologically-based sexual-reference terms will not have developed inside the species, because there is no reason for them to exist in the first place
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Biologically-based sexual-reference terms will not be necessary for the species to convey ideas unless it involves talk about or with binary species, and then it would probably feel awkward to them. (rather like many of you who define themselves strictly by binary terms are probably feeling about now)
This is a fascinating read. I haven’t read the books on that list, but maybe I should.
We as humans struggle to understand beyond the binary in any sense. Intersex people exist, but they are usually (for a number of reasons) still categorized into “male” or “female,” both in name and often via invasive medical procedures. Most people deny the existence of gender non-binary folks in similar fashion. It’s simply difficult to imagine anything other than on/off, he/she, male/female.
I’ve read a number of smaller, less well-known works with aliens or other beings that have no gender, shift gender at will, or take on a gender only during reproduction. They haven’t been all bad. I’m usually more irritated that they reinforce human binaries by being the “cool alien species that doesn’t do gender”–while all the humans stick rigidly to male/female. Sometimes this works for me and I enjoy it, and other times not so much. I can’t really say why. There is one thing that automatically puts me off: A single-gender or non-gendered species that simply recreates male/female binary (or male/female/other) in exactly the same way humans have always done, especially if it ends up reinforcing patriarchy. I don’t really know how to say that better, but I’m aware that this is the limitation of my own (very human) thinking.
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I’m fine with single-sex worlds, if they are believable. But simply applying the biology of a second sex onto the body of other and calling it single sex doesn’t fly. Intersex? By all means make a world that way, but make it work, take off those labels because they, again, don’t apply in that circumstance.
I have critiqued a couple of single-sex world stories in the past and they both failed my test. One had no means whatsoever of reproduction and called one group of nonhumans simply Asexuals (yes, the species name was Asexual… I had to ask) without any further explanation. I, as a human, had no means of association. I had no familiar concept to help me understand the world. I was left asking, like a two-year-old, but “where do babies come from?” The second– er, kidnapping women of another species so they can carry and produce your species male-only children through a forced breeding program. No. Just, no. And it was written from the perceptive of a male of the kidnapper species. Double that no and add a WTF.
What I truly want is to read a single-sex species piece of Sci-Fi that is relatable, that I can follow, and where the single-sex species doesn’t identify itself based in binary terms. But I’m not certain that’s possible.
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Oh, the forced breeding thing. I never like those at all. A lot of single-sex and fated mate and similar rely on non-consent in many ways, and I don’t enjoy reading that. For personal reasons, I find it upsetting. I mean, it’s not great in a social justice kind of way either, but I can understand that some people do enjoy it. I just happen not to. I’m never sure if those fated mates/forced breeding stories are just supposed to be the authors’ and readers’ kink or if they’re supposed to be some kind of social commentary.
If you ever find (or write, lol) one of those single-sex species books that fits the bill, let me know.
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I might give it a try, but I can’t promise I can do it well, or even at all. It’s something to think about though.
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A very interesting blog, where you raise many excellent points.
I want to add one more book, the one which really required me to think, challenging my perspective of gender. Stars in My Pocket Like Grains of Sand, by Samuel R. Delaney.
The main character is what we’d think of as a man. She referred to herself as she. She thought of herself as a woman. What’s more, she got involved with what we’d also think of as a man.
It was a true perspective bender, which took me a while to get used to, but a fascinating read.
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